“Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff

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Here’s a Story About Jumping to Conclusions

The following story is found in Richard Carlson’s book “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff…And It’s All Small Stuff.” 

There’s a moral to the story that we can all benefit from.

Get Comfortable Not Knowing.

There once was a village that had among its people a very wise old man. The villagers trusted this man to provide them answers to their questions and concerns.

One day, a farmer from the village went to the wise man and said in a frantic tone, “Wise man, help me. A horrible thing has happened. My ox has died and I have no animal to help me plow my field! Isn’t this the worst thing that could have possibly happened?”

Don't Sweat the Small StuffThe wise old man replied, “Maybe so, maybe not.”

The man hurried back to the village and reported to his neighbors that the wise man had gone mad. Surely this was the worst thing that could have happened. Why couldn’t he see this?

The very next day, however, a strong, young horse was seen near the man’s farm. Because the man had no ox to rely on, he had the idea to catch the horse to replace his ox—and he did. How joyful the farmer was. Plowing the field had never been easier.

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

He went back to the wise man to apologize. “You were right, wise man. Losing my ox wasn’t the worst thing that could have happened. It was a blessing in disguise! I never would have captured my new horse had that not happened. You must agree that this is the best thing that could have happened.” The wise man replied once again, “Maybe so, maybe not.”

Not again, thought the farmer. Surely the wise man had gone mad now. But, once again, the farmer did not know what was to happen.

A few days later the farmer’s son was riding the horse and was thrown off. He broke his leg and would not be able to help with the crop. Oh no, thought the man. Now we will starve to death.

Once again, the farmer went to the wise man. This time he said, “How did you know that capturing my horse was not a good thing? You were right again. My son is injured and won’t be able to help with the crop. This time I’m sure that this is the worst thing that could have possibly happened. You must agree this time.”

But, just as he had done before, the wise man calmly looked at the farmer and in a compassionate tone replied once again, “Maybe so, maybe not.” Enraged that the wise man could be so ignorant, the farmer stormed back to the village.

The next day troops arrived to take every able-bodied man to the war that had just broken out. The farmer’s son was the only young man in the village who didn’t have to go. He would live, while the others would surely die.

Don't Sweat The Small Stuff

The moral of this story provides a powerful lesson. The truth is, we don’t know what’s going to happen—we just think we do.

Often we make a big deal out of something that happens in our lives.  We blow up scenarios all out of proportion in our minds about all the terrible things that are going to happen. Most of the time we are wrong.

If we keep our cool and stay open to possibilities, we can be reasonably certain that, eventually, all will be well. Remember: maybe so, maybe not.”
― Richard CarlsonDon’t Sweat the Small Stuff … and it’s all small stuff: Simple Ways to Keep the Little Things from Taking Over Your Life

Those are two good rules to live by:

  1. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff
  2. It’s ALL Small Stuff

Have a great day.  All comments are appreciated.

Thanks to Pixabay for the images used in this post.

I’m Grant.

  

 

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